Posted 2 days ago
Movie Theater Hell- Polygamists, Mob Mentality and Caffeine-Jacked Kids at the Movie Theater!

Insanity at the Movies- Tabitha Stevens and Gary Orona talk about their weekend experience at the local movie theater, gone gonzo when; the line turned into a frenzied mob as the doors opened, they seated themselves in the same row as a group of known TV Polygamists, and Gary sat next to a kid amped up on 50 ounces of soda! And it’s all absolutely true! If you ever wondered how wild Tabitha and Gary’s lives really are, listen in as a simple outing becomes completely ridiculous!

You won’t want to miss this episode as Tabitha and Gary recount their bizarre Mother’s Day outing to a movie theater at the Red Rocks Casino in Las Vegas, Nevada!

Don’t miss this episode!
www.TabithaTV.com

Movie Theater Hell- Polygamists, Mob Mentality and Caffeine-Jacked Kids at the Movie Theater!

Insanity at the Movies- Tabitha Stevens and Gary Orona talk about their weekend experience at the local movie theater, gone gonzo when; the line turned into a frenzied mob as the doors opened, they seated themselves in the same row as a group of known TV Polygamists, and Gary sat next to a kid amped up on 50 ounces of soda! And it’s all absolutely true! If you ever wondered how wild Tabitha and Gary’s lives really are, listen in as a simple outing becomes completely ridiculous!

You won’t want to miss this episode as Tabitha and Gary recount their bizarre Mother’s Day outing to a movie theater at the Red Rocks Casino in Las Vegas, Nevada!

Don’t miss this episode!

www.TabithaTV.com

Posted 1 week ago
I (Tabitha Stevens) Perform a Suicide Suspension-
We just posted a detailed PODCAST which talks about the Suicide Suspension that I did when we were producing the movie “SANATORIUM”. Yes that’s me hanging from my skin in the photo!
If you’re interested in hearing what it’s like to hang from your own flesh this is the podcast for you!
http://TabithaTV.com
Click on the “listen to Podcast” button and you’ll find it there.

I (Tabitha Stevens) Perform a Suicide Suspension-

We just posted a detailed PODCAST which talks about the Suicide Suspension that I did when we were producing the movie “SANATORIUM”. Yes that’s me hanging from my skin in the photo!

If you’re interested in hearing what it’s like to hang from your own flesh this is the podcast for you!

http://TabithaTV.com

Click on the “listen to Podcast” button and you’ll find it there.

Posted 3 weeks ago

Something fun is going to launched in a few weeks!

Posted 1 month ago

March 19,2012

Creativity

Though ‘Porn’ was my career for MANY years, I have never lost what has really inspired me~ being CREATIVE and doing the things that I enjoy doing. 

Wether it be a new movie or web based series that Gary and I co~ create, refinishing old furniture ( stripping and sanding it down to it’s original state and then staining it ), repainting our houses, taking clothing from my massive wardrobe collection and adding new touches to my clothing and shoes or coming up with a crazy makeup style for a photo shoot, my mind is always creating something new and exciting.

The other day, I was showing Gary some pictures that I took with my iphone, he was very impressed with my style of shooting. I capture images that most people wouldn’t think of shooting. I just like having fun and being silly with the content that I shoot. Again, I’m being CREATIVE!

I just wish that more people in this world would be open minded and less negative towards the people in the ‘Sex Industry’ thinking that all of us ‘sex performers’ are only good for having ‘sex’. There are so many talented and wonderful people in this business who don’t ‘just’ focus on sex. People who create clothing, hair pieces and accessories, have musical talents, write scripts and blogs and even volunteer their time to help others in need. 

I say whoever you are and whatever you do for a living, keep on CREATING. Focus on what makes YOU happy and take the extra time to do whatever it is that YOU enjoy CREATING! 

XOXOX,

Tabitha

http://www.tabithastevens.com

Posted 2 months ago
March 12,2012
Diamonds
Hehehehe, I posted a picture of myself topless, BUT there are what look like ‘diamonds’ on the elastic of my panties, so my blog title does go with the picture. Of course they are just rhinestones and not real diamonds. There once was a time when I would have loved to have had an entire dress made out of diamonds. Who’s kidding who, most girls would love to dress themselves in nothing but diamonds.
I am older and wiser now. Diamonds may last forever, but we as human beings don’t live forever and sometimes even our marriages last for less than what we had expected.  This is how my story begins………….
As many of you know, I have been married 4 times. Don’t judge my character because of that. Sometimes it might take 10 husbands to find the right husband for you! Anyway, knowing that I have been married that amount of times and engaged just as many to different guys, you can imagine the assortment of engagement/wedding rings that I have had. 
The largest diamond that I wore on my finger was that of a 5.2 carat radiant cut center stone with two carats of surrounding diamonds. Pretty damn big for such a tiny ring finger ( my ring finger is a size 3~ I kid you not ). My ex and I picked it out from a diamond broker ( I always thought that going to a diamond broker was the best and easier hit on the wallet way to go ). The cost of this diamond was around $18,000. Keep this amount in your head for a minute. 
Going backwards over 10 years, after the divorce from my 3rd husband ( nightmare isn’t even close to what I had to deal with ), I decided to buy my own engagement ring and be engaged to ‘myself’. Now no one could take MY diamonds away from me. I purchased a 3.15 carat oval cut center stone and had it placed in a 2. something carat setting. This ring cost me $17,000 from a diamond broker.
Today, I only wear the ring that I purchased years ago. This is the diamond that I had wanted placed in my wrist on an episode of the E! Channel’s hit series Dr.90210. No, my Dr. would not put it in my wrist. Long story for another time. I did not want Gary ( my current and FINAL husband ) to buy me another diamond. We are deeply connected on a level where a diamond, though brilliant in color and beautiful, is just another ‘rock’. So I wear the diamond that I bought. Why spend unnecessary money? The ring that I bought is gorgeous.
 I had lost the appraisal paperwork for my ring and for insurance purposes I had my ring re~appraised two years ago. HOLY CRAP! No, not in a good way. My $17,000 ring is worth $10,000 ( sure diamond brokers give you a great deal, yeah right )! Guess what the 5.2 carat is worth? Are you ready to piss your pants? How does $6,000 work for ya? CRAZY isn’t it? The original appraisal paperwork says it’s worth $42,000. Ummmm, okay. 
When I read or hear stories about celebrities who wear a 10 carat diamond engagement ring that cost over half a million dollars or more, I want to puke! Either they are fully lying about the price to make themselves ‘shine’ over other celebrities or their fiance’s were totally taken advantage of. It sickens me even more when a diamond is a ‘conflict’ diamond and people die because of it. *You can research conflict diamonds on the web.
Yes, color,cut, clarity and size have something to do with the price, but GIVE ME A FUCKING BREAK! If an oval cut is ‘popular’ that year because a celebrity is wearing one, the price of oval cuts goes way up. What a CROCK OF BS! I prefer a diamond that HAS inclusions, this way I know it’s real. My own personal choice btw. 
I’m not saying ‘don’t love diamonds’, I’m saying that especially with diamonds, size doesn’t really matter, love the diamond that you get and the meaning behind it. Don’t be fooled by jewelry store prices and diamond broker prices like I was. If you have the money to burn and it will make your lady overjoyed, then by all means go for it.
Just keeping it REAL and being SMART!
XOXOX,
Tabitha
http://www.tabithastevens.com

March 12,2012

Diamonds


Hehehehe, I posted a picture of myself topless, BUT there are what look like ‘diamonds’ on the elastic of my panties, so my blog title does go with the picture. Of course they are just rhinestones and not real diamonds. There once was a time when I would have loved to have had an entire dress made out of diamonds. Who’s kidding who, most girls would love to dress themselves in nothing but diamonds.

I am older and wiser now. Diamonds may last forever, but we as human beings don’t live forever and sometimes even our marriages last for less than what we had expected.  This is how my story begins………….

As many of you know, I have been married 4 times. Don’t judge my character because of that. Sometimes it might take 10 husbands to find the right husband for you! Anyway, knowing that I have been married that amount of times and engaged just as many to different guys, you can imagine the assortment of engagement/wedding rings that I have had. 

The largest diamond that I wore on my finger was that of a 5.2 carat radiant cut center stone with two carats of surrounding diamonds. Pretty damn big for such a tiny ring finger ( my ring finger is a size 3~ I kid you not ). My ex and I picked it out from a diamond broker ( I always thought that going to a diamond broker was the best and easier hit on the wallet way to go ). The cost of this diamond was around $18,000. Keep this amount in your head for a minute. 

Going backwards over 10 years, after the divorce from my 3rd husband ( nightmare isn’t even close to what I had to deal with ), I decided to buy my own engagement ring and be engaged to ‘myself’. Now no one could take MY diamonds away from me. I purchased a 3.15 carat oval cut center stone and had it placed in a 2. something carat setting. This ring cost me $17,000 from a diamond broker.

Today, I only wear the ring that I purchased years ago. This is the diamond that I had wanted placed in my wrist on an episode of the E! Channel’s hit series Dr.90210. No, my Dr. would not put it in my wrist. Long story for another time. I did not want Gary ( my current and FINAL husband ) to buy me another diamond. We are deeply connected on a level where a diamond, though brilliant in color and beautiful, is just another ‘rock’. So I wear the diamond that I bought. Why spend unnecessary money? The ring that I bought is gorgeous.

 I had lost the appraisal paperwork for my ring and for insurance purposes I had my ring re~appraised two years ago. HOLY CRAP! No, not in a good way. My $17,000 ring is worth $10,000 ( sure diamond brokers give you a great deal, yeah right )! Guess what the 5.2 carat is worth? Are you ready to piss your pants? How does $6,000 work for ya? CRAZY isn’t it? The original appraisal paperwork says it’s worth $42,000. Ummmm, okay. 

When I read or hear stories about celebrities who wear a 10 carat diamond engagement ring that cost over half a million dollars or more, I want to puke! Either they are fully lying about the price to make themselves ‘shine’ over other celebrities or their fiance’s were totally taken advantage of. It sickens me even more when a diamond is a ‘conflict’ diamond and people die because of it. *You can research conflict diamonds on the web.

Yes, color,cut, clarity and size have something to do with the price, but GIVE ME A FUCKING BREAK! If an oval cut is ‘popular’ that year because a celebrity is wearing one, the price of oval cuts goes way up. What a CROCK OF BS! I prefer a diamond that HAS inclusions, this way I know it’s real. My own personal choice btw. 

I’m not saying ‘don’t love diamonds’, I’m saying that especially with diamonds, size doesn’t really matter, love the diamond that you get and the meaning behind it. Don’t be fooled by jewelry store prices and diamond broker prices like I was. If you have the money to burn and it will make your lady overjoyed, then by all means go for it.

Just keeping it REAL and being SMART!

XOXOX,

Tabitha

http://www.tabithastevens.com

Posted 2 months ago

March 9,2012

I Need a Vacation

This picture, shot by my husband Gary Orona, was taken YEARS ago while we were on location shooting the ’ The Erotic Traveler’ ( for HBO/Cinemax ). It was a warm, sunny but breezy day. I decided to go very minimalistic with my makeup and with natural unstyled hair. My friend ( who was our makeup artist through part of the shoot ~ I did my own makeup for this particular shoot ) came along for the ride. She put a hair clip in my hair and that was the look. No clothing needed.

Some of my favorite shots in Gary’s collection are the ones taken from this location. Even though we had worked part of the day on the show, we still took some time out to take these pictures. At that point it seemed like a little vacation. Maybe that’s because we weren’t dealing with the wacky cast that day so it was much more peaceful and quiet. 

Looking back now, I really miss this location and would love to re~shoot in some of these amazing spots with my darker hair and a pretty flower pinned in it. I need a vacation. Even if it’s a week long and a couple of photo shoots are added. Many people are convinced that Gary and I are always on vacation because of the traveling that we do for our shoots. This is so NOT true. We begin working weeks before we are even on the plane. Now if I could just get Gary to pack only his swim suit and a tee~shirt and accidentally lose his scripts………………………..

Life’s too short~ take a VACATION or two or three ;-).

XOXOX,

Tabitha

www.tabithastevens.com

Posted 2 months ago

March 8,2012

Panic Attack Over Hair Foils

Yes, the title of this particular blog is so very TRUE! This happened to me yesterday at the hair salon. I’m going through a hair coloring process for a character that I am playing in a new show that Gary and I are creating. My character has red hair with black streaks. Soooo, in order to get my hair colored red my amazing hair dresser Tommy, has to strip out the black that I currently have in it. FOILS! Yes, LOTS of FOILS! 

Now I have noticed before when I’ve had highlights put in my hair, that I get a little anxious. I squirm in the chair a little and start twitching. Weird, I know. Well yesterday was just plain STUPID! I don’t know what was going on with me. Poor Tommy must have thought I was a nut job on crack. I had so much anxiety that I was slouching deep into the salon chair and my hands were shaking and freezing cold. This began after the second foil was put on my head! The more foils Tommy put on, the deeper I would sink into the chair. I even had to close my eyes to not focus on the foils. We both laughed at how by the time he was close to having me foiled up, I’d be under the chair and he’d have to scoot me out from underneath. Hey, at least I knew I was being nutty and could joke about it. There’s something to be said about that. Ummm yeah, maybe that I’m due to see a shrink.

Tommy asked me if I was nervous about having red hair and maybe that’s what triggered the panic attack. No way! I’d been waiting to have red hair for years and now that I had the chance, I was going ALL OUT! 

Mind you, I did take my morning medication ( Xanax ) before I went to the salon ( due to my frequent panic attacks my doctor prescribes me Xanax ). I even took an extra piece while getting foiled to calm me down quicker. Didn’t work. By the time the foils were finally removed form my head ( over 45 minutes later ) I was feeling better. Maybe the aluminum element in the foil was conducting electricity which caused me to react in such a strange manner. Damn I must really be in touch with my inner self! I only got wacky AFTER the foils were applied. I gave Tommy my permission to tell anyone he wanted about my strange foil encounter. It’s to insane of a story not to tell. I’m not even giving the story the proper justice it deserves! I acted like a woman who just escaped from the looney bin. I did however maintain my composure around surrounding clients who were getting their hair done as well. I’m good that way ;-).

The best part, guess who goes back to the salon next Tuesday to complete the red transformation??? I’ll be sure to report back unless the media outlets get to the story first. HEADLINE NEWS: Former Adult Film Star runs through hair salon screaming while crumbling up hair foils. 

Wish me LOTS of LUCK!

XOXOX,

Tabitha

http://www.tabithastevens.com

Posted 2 months ago

February 28,2012

Cars

I will be the first person to admit that I LOVE sporty cars. Always have. I was even lucky enough to sit in one of Mike Tyson’s (yes, the World Famous Boxer, Iron Mike Tyson) Lamborghini’s in 1991. It was a super cool looking car but I felt like I was sitting in a child car seat on the floor. What if you want to go on a road trip across country? Where do you put your clothes, ect.? Forget about it!

I’ve had MANY luxury cars over the years and fell in love with one of them in particular. This car was ‘TABSJAG’. No, really, that’s what my license plate read. I had LEASED (such a dumb move on my part) 2 other Jaguar’s before leasing my FAVORITE Jag. This was a 2003 Jaguar S~Type R, black on black, mesh grill, black tinted windows, supercharged V-8 420 horses. This beauty set me back over $1,300 a month with a down payment of 9k on a 4 year lease (this was the payment BEFORE insurance). What the FUCK was I thinking??? I wasn’t thinking, my dreaded EGO was! In 2007 I turned in my black beauty for yet another S`Type R. I didn’t have to put anything down, no interest and with a MUCH lower payment. Guess what? I leased it. When it came time to turn it in I refused to lease again. This was partly due to the fact that I had also leased a 2007 Range Rover with a $1,200 a month payment. 

In front of our former place in Colorado, my husband and I had 2 Range Rovers, 1 Land Rover and a Jaguar. Between car payments and insurance, we were looking at over 4k a month in JUST CARS! 

Welcome to the year of super inflated gas prices! My lease on the Jag was up, gas prices were so crazy and it cost lots of $$$ to fill up the Rovers with gas ( we drove back and forth to Utah 4 times a week, talk about hundreds of dollars in gas ). I turned in the Jag, turned in the 2007 Range Rover early ( that SUV, though great looking and comfortable, totally sucked off road and to top it off we got stuck in two inches of snow and had to be towed out by a 1980 Toyota pick up truck ), sold the older Range Rover and kept the Land Rover (Gary’s Favorite). The Land Rover is a 2003 Limited Edition Special Vehicle and it’s AWESOME off road. NOTE: If you are looking at the newer Land Rovers to buy, don’t bother, go for an older model with lower miles.

I waited to BUY a new car that would look sporty and be GREAT on gas ( I am notorious for putting TONS of miles on a car ). I rented pretty much every car on the planet for 3 years to see what I really liked. Finally, I went and BOUGHT a 2011 Hyundai Elantra. Now it’s not a Jag by any means, but I got the limited version with leather heated seats in the front and rear, bluetooth, Sirius/XM and a sun roof. I get just about 40 miles to the gallon and this lil’ sucker is a zipper on the road. I know why it’s the 2012 North American Car of the Year! The best part, under $25,000 and a 100,000 mile warranty. 

We still have Gary’s Land Rover ( always will for we OWN it and we are ALWAYS off road when shooting ), but I am really digging this super priced, good looking little car. 

So to all of you who don’t own the ‘TOP of the LINE’ luxury car or SUV that costs over $40k plus, who fucking cares??? Enjoy the car you have, especially if it’s great on gas and if your car is paid off! Too many people JUDGE other people by the car they drive. That’s just plain STUPID! Most very successful and very rich people that I personally know drive economy cars because they are KEEPING the money they have WORKED hard for. I just crack up over the looks that I get when I pull into to a snobby shopping center. Little do these ignorant people know is that I am a world famous celebrity ( yes, in other countries especially, adult film stars are more famous than most American reality TV stars )  and have big time celebrity friends that these people would give their left arm to meet. Yeah, and I drive a fucking Hyundai by CHOICE and I love it! ( sorry, EGO moment ). 

A very good friend of mine, who is also a celebrity, drives an economy Chevy. He’s a guy who is TOTALLY secure with his manhood. He doesn’t need no stinking Porsche 911 convertible. The man could get his D**k sucked if he drove a Pinto. I’m Just Say’n.

I’d rather have little to no bills and cash in the bank than to LIVE for my CAR. Your car is worth what when you drive it off the lot???

P.S. be sure to buckle up ~ that’s another story and one that saved my life!

XOXOX,

Tabitha 

http://www.tabithastevens.com

Posted 2 months ago

February 26,2012

My Starbucks Friends

Okay, so I enjoy my morning coffee. My drink of choice is pretty simple, a grande (16 ounce cup size) coffee ~house blend with 2 inches of cold soy milk from Starbucks. Truth is, I started drinking coffee in my early 30’s to help keep me ‘regular’. Yes, I have ‘bathroom issues’, meaning I have a hard time ‘going’ to the ‘bathroom’ for the ‘evacuation’ process. Oh wait, ummm never mind, girls don’t poop. How silly of me to forget. FUCK THAT! EVERYBODY POOPS!

Anyway, I enjoy going to Starbucks not only for the coffee, but also to visit with the friends that I have made who work at Starbucks. I have friends at three Las Vegas locations and friends at one Colorado location. I see my Starbucks friends at least 5 times a week (depending on location). I invite my friends, who just happen to work at Starbucks, to VIP parties and events that I host and even to lunch. When I tell people about my awesome friends, they look at me like I’m a crazy person and giggle. I so want to slap the living crap out of those ignorant fucks! 

Here’s the deal, I am a very social person and enjoy talking with cool people about pretty much anything. I find that when I go to my favorite Starbucks locations in the morning, I have a great morning. I order my drink, laugh with my friends who are working behind the counter, pay for my beverage , chat a little more and I then leave. I actually ENJOY the entire ‘going to Starbucks’ experience!

What ANGERS me, is when my friends, who work their asses off making people their coffee, are treated like second class citizens. Hey, I know what it’s like to have an ‘off’ morning. I’ll tell you what though, I would NEVER take out my morning moodiness on a person who is just trying to do their job. There have been quite a few times where I have vocally went off on customers who were complete assholes to Starbucks employees. There’s NO EXCUSE to be a prick because YOU are running late for YOUR job and YOU ordered a Venti Mocha with whip and by ACCIDENT there wasn’t whip in your mocha. Shit happens. Just be NICE. Oh, and don’t even get me going on people who are jerk wads in the drive thru. I say, get your mutha fuck’n LAZY ASS out of the car and wait in line and quit bitching that your drink took to long to make. Kiss my Vanilla Latte ASS!!!

I’ve traveled to many places and have been to MANY different coffee shops and I must say that I have had better coffee and even better experiences and service at Starbucks locations. So the next time you would like a nice cup of joe and end up at a Starbucks, be nice to the employees. You wouldn’t want them to come and be an asshole at your place of employment would you? Yeah, that’s what I thought.

*In the pic~ Sipping on a Starbucks Via at a different coffee shop. There wasn’t a Starbucks in the area. I bring my Via’s with me in my purse ;-). 

XOXOX,

Tabitha

http://www.tabithastevens.com

Posted 2 months ago

February 20,2012

Naked Face

Gary took this picture of me while on one of our location scouting afternoons. I was NOT supposed to do a photo shoot that day. I got in the rover that morning wearing shorts, a tank top, hiking boots and a NAKED FACE! Why would I wear makeup just to look for interesting places to shoot potential photo’s in the future?

The light was great that day, so Gary convinced me to get naked and do some test shots. We had a sarong in the back of the rover, so I wrapped it in my hair and the rest is history. In some of those shots you will see me wearing my hiking boots with my naked face and the sarong tied up on my head. 

There is something very sexy about women who pose ‘Naked Faced’ in pictures. We ALL have a beautiful facial feature, wether it be full lips, high cheek bones, cut jaw line, beautiful eye shape and/or color. We may not have every single one of those features on our face like Angelina Jolie , Cindy Crawford, Garcelle Beauvais or Adriana Lima, but we all have a beautiful facial feature. We are ALL beautiful women. 

I must confess, I am in complete awe of Angelina Jolie’s face. I had my lips injected so BIG at one point that I looked like a kissing fish. I have an oval shaped face with small features, that big lip look did NOT look good on me. Even Howard Stern noticed it while I was on his show years back and commented on silly I looked. He was right.

I have learned over the years that YES, there are great plastic surgeons who can pretty much create a whole new face for you. Why? I mean, if you really aren’t happy with, let’s say your nose because you feel it may be to large for your face, then see a plastic surgeon. See a good doctor that will just slightly reshape your nose. look like YOURSELF! Angelina Jolie will ALWAYS be Angelina Jolie. I can’t be Angelina Jolie, I’m Tabitha Stevens.

I have had my share of plastic surgery and I can honestly say that I was a dummy believing what most of my former surgeons suggest that I do to ‘enhance’ my features. What a crock of shit! Dr. Gary Motykie and Dr. Garth Fisher were the only two surgeons that were honest with me and told me to keep myself my natural looking, therefore they would not do anything crazy to my face or body (Garth reduced my BIG silly looking breasts to the perfect size they are now).

The more we focus on our facial feature(s) that we really like, the more we can accent on that feature to make it our BEST feature. 

LOVE YOUR FACE!!!!

XOXOX,

Tabitha

http://www.tabithastevens.com